After spending the weekend with some old friends, it got me thinking about the fluctuation of friendships. I grew up singing this folk song at Girl Scout camp and it has always stuck with me.
Make New Friends, But Keep the Old
One is Silver and the Other is Gold
With my quarter life crisis in full swing, my friendships old and new carry a lot of weight these days because we lean on each other for support. Having just moved to the city, I’ve been spending time with lots of new people and old friends I didn’t see as often when I lived across the water. It got me thinking how friendships, bonds and connections with people are constantly changing throughout a lifetime. When we’re young we think friendship is a concrete, forever thing.
I love the portrayal of female friendship on the HBO show Girls. My friends and I are most definitely their target audience, and they hit the nail on the head with the weird quirks that come with female friendships in their 20’s. The BBC article below reflects on the importance of female friendships and how they’ve been portrayed in TV and movies of the recent century.
For women, being social is part of our make up. We feed off of the people around us and are changed and affected by those relationships.
My point being, people come and go, cherish them all the same for what they contribute to your life!